Monday, August 31, 2009

Made to order

The dull sound of the wet grinder was looming low from the kitchen. Tomorrow’s breakfast was slowly making its shape in the machine. Meanwhile, my elder son ( who’s almost 6) had a burning question in his tiny mind. ..

Kid : What’s for morrow’s snack box?

Before heading upstairs to retire for the day, he makes it a habit to come down to the kitchen to ask the million-dollar question. He observed the batter being made and declared
Kid :“Nice ! So , morrow’s idli.”

His large beam about his favorite breakfast made me frown.

Me : “Close enough baby. It’s dosa”

Now it was his time to frown.

Kid : "I don’t like dosa in the box. It’s more like a papad !”

I rolled my eyes and looked at my maid. She agreed in unison.

Maid : “Yeah, he left the dosa and ate all the jam last time”.
Oh, this is something I somehow missed, I thought.

Kid :“I just want idli and sugar with ghee”

I eyed on the left-over rice I just cooked for dinner. I thought of making a remix version of the rice, adding some of his favorite paneer.

Kid : “Uh No! Paneer is only for lunch, mama”.

I wanted to convince him, while his daddy dearest came to rescue. He stared at me and said,
Dad :“ You are gonna put this left-over rice for morrow?? No way !” .
I wanted to throw some water on my husband’s face for giving unwarranted suggestions and making my already-difficult task even more difficult. Instead, I just washed my own face. Anger management.

I turned to my kid, who was still waiting for today’s answer about morrow’s breakfast.
Me :"Okay baby, I’ll make you a sandwich."

Kid :"No, That’s what I ate today."

Oh my God, This kid is starting to become impossible. But, frankly and secretly, . I started liking the way he was interacting with me like an adult. I was soo enjoying this Man-to-maam talk.

Me : "That’s fine, I’ll do something in the morning. Don’t worry."

Kid : "Ok..but please don’t put papad dosa.."
I giggled and nodded.

And then, did I mention that I was dreaming of swirling dosas and angry mutters on my face the entire night? Funny dreams, I say.

Nature won't stop and so dawn broke and so did the suspense. I made upma. A breakfast which he just started to develop his taste for, apart from his western appetite of PBJ sandwiches and pastas.

Once ready, he saw me fixing his box.

Kid : “ Cool… and yeah, could u put that tomato ketchup on a separate plate and not over the upma? “

Gosh !! I wanted to tell him that’s not the right combination, but what the heck? The same kid who used to make me literally break down into tears and frantically search for websites for increasing the kid’s appetite ( when he was a toddler) is now ready for “made to order”. And mama chef is more than happy.

Am still searching for those websites. This time, its for my younger son.(who’s 3 yrs old) But, maybe its time I realize that he would outgrow his lack of appetite soon enough and start ordering me what to cook, in a year or so, following his brother. I just fervently hope that their tastes match. Or else, you would be finding me making sandwich for one box and dosa for the other. Heheh.

4 comments:

shanti said...

Hey Sissy... Really interesting, the way you put it 'bout this kids and their demands....I couldnt stop myself laughing loudly at your Anger Management incident... haha...that was the best part...haha !! About us relating to this, I hate idlis, so my kids do too.... Bavagaru craves for idlis....lol...I dont make the things which I dont like... thats my RULE !! Anyways, good raa !!

CriSha said...

i have to agree to shanti above couldnt stop laughing to the anger management.. i imagined filmy style how would it be, if you through water .... may be i should stress on the point my mom had little tantrums with us for food, as that's only thing she would scold or hit if we dont eat food whats on the plate. n leaving in the plate or in the box aa concept ee ledhu n fear factor eppati nunchi vundi poyindhi so... ayina happy ga curd rice with pickle all set for almost more than 20 yrs so...anyways next emm twist vuntundho anni waiting so we can refresh our memories,,,,,,,

Shanthiprasadh said...

@shanti: haha..i like ur rule akka...not making what you dont like...maybe am gonna improvise the same ;)
and thanks a ton for always encouraging me :D

Shanthiprasadh said...

@variant : huh...i dont know how my anger management managed to evoke laughter while the poor me was washing thy face :P...
anyway..thanks cri...u've always been liking whatever i like and am glad its the same with this too :)